Hi Ramachandran,
after a week of to and fro from Intel, still no answers confirming a working solution.. what does seem to have come out was "no really support on VMware is done by intel"..
I made the decision to return the server to the disti, and then switch to another Brand that it certified on the VMware website..
I am busy with the install and shall post my success / failure in a few hours... - at this time all systems go...
Just by the way the same technology main board and v3 (haswell) processors as in the intel solution is being used..